Wednesday, December 9, 2020

Still A Merry Christmas

 

             This is the time of year when we Wisconsinites begin preparation for the winter. It is a time of refection and renewal. Winter has always enchanted and challenged us to find new ways to celebrate and enjoy our lives. This year those winter activities we enjoy will be especially welcome and helpful. It is no accident that one of our most joyous holidays is celebrated in the heart of winter. The stories of Christmas – traditional or personal – are stories of kindness and forgiveness and charity. These stories help us understand how we should live and what we should value. Think of all the stories you have heard from friends and family as they remember Christmas celebrations long past. In our family the Holiday season is filled with Christmas movies we have enjoyed over and over.  One of our favorites is The Christmas Carol. (I won’t get into the debate about which Christmas Carol is the BEST. It would take hours!) Most people know this story by Charles Dickens. It is a sentimental story about a greedy, unhappy old man who learns how to find joy by actually seeing the pain and hardship others suffer, especially a little boy who can’t walk. Scrooge realizes that defining joy by how much money you have is misguided and cruel. It’s a great story which explains why it has been so popular for so long. It also has been retold in various ways. One of our favorites is The Muppet Christmas Carol. (I know, I know. Puppets singing?) As most of you know, I am a huge fan of musical theatre having performed and directed musicals for many years. Music can help us feel emotions like no other form of communication. To watch the puppets and live characters, especially Michael Caine, sing and dance the traditional story of Christmas Carol is to understand it in a new way. Now, take this moving interpretation of that old story and place it at the end of 2020 and we are reminded that the best stories are eternal.

None of us could have imagined a year ago what challenges we would face in 2020. How could we know that we would watch as hundreds of thousands of people, some our friends and family, would perish from a dreaded virus? How could we know that many in our communities would suffer from loss of income and security? How could we know that everything we thought we knew about our “American Dream” was suddenly in question here at home and around the world? How could this be happening and what do we do about it? I think the Christmas Carol story can help.

While I think it is interesting to imagine what would happen to the greedy and unethical if they were visited by spirits from the past, present, and future, I will leave it to others to dwell on retribution. What I am most interested in is the powerful role-models shared by the average people in this story. People who are decent, caring, struggling members of our communities. People who show us what we should value and how we should behave. And this is where the music part of The Muppet Christmas Carol is so helpful.

          One of the main characters in the story is Tiny Tim. Everyone knows he is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Bob Crachit. He walks with a crutch and we are led to believe he has a serious illness. This is a family that lives on the edge of poverty and we see how Tiny Tim’s illness affects the whole group. And yet – the family strives to see goodness and when they come together to offer a blessing before their Christmas meal, they sing these words – (remember this was 1992)

Bless us all, that as we live

We always comfort and forgive

We have so much that we can share

With those in need we see around us everywhere

Let us always love each other

Lead us toward the light

Let us hear the voice of reason

Singing in the night.

Let us run from anger

And catch us when we fall

Teach us in our dreams

Bless us one and all

As we approach Christmas this year, I hope we can all heed the words of Tiny Tim and his family. I know it can only help.

 Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Wednesday, September 2, 2020

A Year Like No Other

 

Dear Teachers,

Last night, just as some friends were leaving after dinner, they looked off into the west and stopped to marvel at the sunset. The sun glowed orange as it settled toward the horizon. We all stood in silence as the hymn of evening played around us. For those of us in Wisconsin, the changing of the light is the signal that fall is not that far away. For those who are teachers – even retired – the August sunsets, the heavy dew, the Monarch butterflies, all signal the start of another new year. The anticipation of meeting new students, the satisfaction of greeting old friends and new colleagues, the great good fortune of having a profession that gives you the chance to start new every year!  And then … as a wise person once said – I think maybe Mark Twain, “Life is just one damn thing after another”.  Nothing is normal, nothing is the same. Those of us who have advocated for fully funded public education KNOW how important schools are for our children and our society. We also KNOW how critical it is for kids to be in the presence of good teachers. We KNOW how necessary face-to-face communication is for learning. I would love to see our schools fully funded and fully open for students. Unfortunately, that is not possible now. For those of you who will start your school year virtually, I wish you well. This old man is amazed at the work technology can help us do. Yet, like many of you, I worry about what gets lost in the virtual interactions. I watched a kindergarten teacher last spring despair over the inability to take a child in her arms or look them in the eyes. I know you will make the best of this unprecedented time to help kids and parents.

For those of you who are asked to meet students face-to-face, I can only imagine what you are thinking. Teaching has always required the ability to juggle many things at the same time, but now you are asked to juggle things you can’t even see. We can only hope this pandemic can be defeated sooner rather than later. In the meantime, please know those of us on the sidelines are doing what we can to support you. I know you will do your best for our kids.

If there is any glimmer of light coming from these cloudy times, it is the acknowledgement that despite continued attacks on public education, especially here in Wisconsin, we’ve been reminded of the critical part our schools play in our society. Without well-informed, enlightened citizens, we are doomed. It is also the place where many of our children find hope and support. I can’t begin to acknowledge all the teachers and coaches who touched the lives of my own children. Not just to help them read and write, but to help them understand history, science, art, and music. The excellence of our schools is the main reason America has been awarded more Nobel Prizes than any other country on Earth. And yet, the most important lessons my children learned in school had to do with compassion and kindness. Nobody gets left out. Nobody gets bullied. Everybody is somebody. The events of the last several months has revealed why we must resist efforts to undermine our public schools and the people who run them. Our schools make us better people.

I recently came across a letter I wrote to my twin daughters on the eve of their first night in college almost a dozen years ago this month. It sums up why I have such respect for the teachers I know. (It also seems totally appropriate for the world we live in today.)

 “… Let college be the place where you become truly “enlightened” – to be wise, just, and fair because you know what is true and you know what is false. That means you must learn to recognize the truth from the lies because there are those who will lie to you. Most will do it because they don’t know any better, but some will deliberately lie to get the things they want. Don’t be fooled. Help those who don’t know any better to find the truth and stand up to those who would lie. You will be happier, and the world will be better.

…. You will have problems. Things will not go the way you planned. Remember all the times you have heard older, more experienced people say, “Character is shown by how you behave after things fall apart.” It’s okay to feel bad when things go wrong, but it is NOT okay to give up. Reach out to those around you who love you and let them comfort you while you regroup, but DON’T feel sorry for yourself. Get back up! Your Mom and I wish we could promise there will be no problems, but we can’t. All we can promise is that we will never give up on you and we will always be there to help you get up.”

This is the message I send to those of you heading for the classroom this week. Please know we are rooting for you in this difficult time. I know some of you will be saying, “Ok, Boomer” - I hope with a smile on your face – but we have no choice but to persevere. Stay well.

A poem:

I Taste A Liquor Never Brewed (214) by Emily Dickinson

I taste a liquor never brewed – 
From Tankards scooped in Pearl – 
Not all the Frankfort Berries
Yield such an Alcohol!

Inebriate of air – am I – 
And Debauchee of Dew – 
Reeling – thro' endless summer days – 
From inns of molten Blue – 

When "Landlords" turn the drunken Bee
Out of the Foxglove's door – 
When Butterflies – renounce their "drams" – 
I shall but drink the more!

Till Seraphs swing their snowy Hats – 
And Saints – to windows run – 
To see the little Tippler
Leaning against the – Sun!